Godly Gentleman

Reawakening Manners and Morality in Men


Lead Me by Sanctus Real

Sanctus Reals Lead Me is a song that has earned itself a permanent place in my music rotation.  I think every man should listen to this song every morning as a reminder of why hes getting out of bed, and what will be expected of him for the next 18 hours or so.  I find that this songs powerful words really resonate with me.  Matt Hammitt, the lead vocalist and guitar player wrote the song after his wife had the courage to come to him and beg him to be a leader for their family.

Andrew Funderburks from New Release Tuesday interviewed the band shortly after their album Pieces of a Real Heart came out.  The following is an excerpt from that interview.

Lead Me by Sanctus Real

One song I know that is poignant for the band is “Lead Me.” Would you mind sharing the story behind the song?

It’s a pretty amazing song. Our lead singer, Matt Hammitt, had most of the song written. It was written after Matt and his wife had a pretty gut-wrenching conversation, where she told him that she needed him to be a better spiritual leader to her and their family. It rocked Matt’s world. They’re the ones who have been married the longest in the band. They’ve been married longer than I have. They already have two daughters and they’re expecting their third child right now. Matt said that he found it humbling that his wife would have the courage to say something like that out of love. Secondly, he realized that he had to do something about it. There was no way around it. We don’t believe in divorce. There were some things they had to work on to keep that open dialogue between the two of them, so that they could admit problems and work through them. That’s where the song came from.

The idea is actually at least a year and a half old. We had a rough idea of the song because he had a demo, but it got put in the pile. The president of our record label somehow found the song before we completely finished the record and said, “Something is going on with that song. I think it could really be turned into something special if you guys finish it.” Until he said that, we hadn’t even entertained the thought of putting the song on the record. When we went in the studio to finish the song with this writer from Nashville, the story came together perfectly. The song is kind of a father’s prayer for his family and wife. It’s an honest cry out to God saying, “If I’m going to lead my family, I need You to lead me.” I can say this because I didn’t have a lot to do with it. [Laughs.] I hope that hearing the story behind the song, and what went into writing it, will touch a lot of lives. It’s a powerful song!

You can catch the entire interview on New Release Tuesdays Website.  While I wasnt able to find an official music video for this song, I did find a pretty neat production by My Bridge Radio.  I think they did a fantastic job on this, and hope they continue to produce videos of this caliber.

Here are the lyrics, in case they didnt instantly burn themselves into your soul.
I look around and see my wonderful life
Almost perfect from the outside
In picture frames I see my beautiful wife
Always smiling
But on the inside, I can hear her saying

“Lead me with strong hands
Stand up when I cant
Dont leave me hungry for love
Chasing dreams, what about us?

Show me youre willing to fight
That Im still the love of your life
I know we call this our home
But I still feel alone”

I see their faces, look in their innocent eyes
Theyre just children from the outside
Im working hard, I tell myself theyll be fine
Theyre in independent
But on the inside, I can hear them saying

“Lead me with strong hands
Stand up when I cant
Dont leave me hungry for love
Chasing dreams, but what about us?

Show me youre willing to fight
That Im still the love of your life
I know we call this our home
But I still feel alone”

So Father, give me the strength
To be everything Im called to be
Oh, Father, show me the way
To lead them
Wont You lead me?

To lead them with strong hands
To stand up when they cant
Dont want to leave them hungry for love,
Chasing things that I could give up

Ill show them Im willing to fight
And give them the best of my life
So we can call this our home
Lead me, cause I cant do this alone

Father, lead me, cause I cant do this alone

Matt put out a podcast with his wife giving more of the back story behind the song.  They knew they were having problems, but they took divorce right off the table.  If there is no escape route, you have no choice but to fight.  They fought for their marriage and came out stronger for it.  I hope more men can learn from his example.  It sickens me that the divorce rate in the church is no different than in the world.  As a geek, it annoys me when people leave their electronics set to forever blink 12:00 when they have a users manual that tells them how to fix the problem if they would only read it.  Well you know what?  Life comes with an instruction manual too.  If you want to salvage a marriage, or simply improve one, go READ THE MANUAL!  Looking at the smoldering remains of my keyboard, I do believe Im going to have to write some more on this topic.


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